For couples and family therapists
Start the next session with both versions already in.
Between sessions, each client writes their side from a private link, on their own phone, with no account. Nobody reads a word, you included, until everyone has written.
When to use it.
After the fight they keep having.
Each writes the same evening from their side, before hearing the other's.
When one of them always goes first.
The quieter partner's version is sealed before anyone reads the louder one's.
For a whole family.
Four people write about the same Sunday; four versions open on one screen. Needs Pro.
Before a review session.
Each writes how the last month went, apart, so neither adjusts to the other.
Open it in the room.
With Pro, your own version counts too. Set the number one higher than the people writing: their versions stay sealed until you add yours, or lower the number, in the session. Then they open on the screen in front of you all.
On Free a couple fills the exchange, so you can't count yourself in.
What you read together.
Each version opens as a card, side by side: what happened, then how it felt. Clients who wrote by link are shown by the last six characters of their private code, not by name.
How to assign it.
Keep the context to one situation, in neutral words.
For example: Saturday evening at your parents'. First what happened, in order. Then what it was like for you.
Send the link the way you already reach them.
By message, by email, or as a QR code in the room. Only to the people meant to write: whoever holds it can fill a free place.
Agree a day.
There are no notifications, so tell them when to write by and when to look again.
Tell them what happens at the end.
Everyone in the exchange reads every version, and it stays readable.
Contexts to start from.
Copy one and change the details.
- Money.
The last time money came up. What was said and done, then how it landed for you.
- A family Sunday.
Sunday at home, from waking up to dinner. What happened, and what it was like for you.
- Since the last session.
Since our last session: one moment that went better and one that went worse. What happened, and how it felt.
What your clients see.
A page in their browser with your context and a form: nothing to install, no account, no email. Until everyone has written, it shows only their own words. In 24 languages.
Before you use it with clients.
Where it's kept.
On one server in Italy that Arasaka runs itself, as your clients wrote it, to be shown to the people in that exchange and for nothing else.
Everyone reads everything at the end.
Every person in the exchange can read and download every version. It is not a way for one partner to tell you something the other mustn't see.
It changes nothing about safety.
Where one partner controls or frightens the other, writing apart does not make joint work safe. That judgement stays yours.
No notifications.
Nobody is told when someone writes or when it opens. Agree a day.
Not a clinical tool.
No AI, no scores, no advice, and it is not built to keep clinical records.
Questions about any of this? Write to us.
Pricing for the practice.
Pro is €90 a year (€18 less than monthly) or €9 a month. Within 14 days, write to us and you get the money back.
Free
For one couple, with you or on their own.
Free
- Exactly 2 people in each exchange
- 3 new exchanges a month
- Your clients join by link, with no app and no account
- Each version sealed until both have written
- Both versions open at once, and can be downloaded
- People in each exchange
- 2
- New exchanges a month
- 3
Pro
For a practice: every couple and family you see.
€9 a month
€90 a year
- 100 new exchanges a month
- Up to 1,000 people in each exchange
- Count yourself in and decide when the versions open
- Everything in Free
- Your clients still need no app and no account
- Switched on within a minute of the payment
- People in each exchange
- 1,000
- New exchanges a month
- 100
Already on a plan? Manage or cancel it from the billing portal.
Try it with your next couple.
Send the link to yourself first: you'll see exactly what your client sees.