For family mediators
Each party writes their side before the joint meeting. Both open together.
Each party writes, from a private link, the issues they want to raise and how they see them. Neither reads the other's until both have written. The meeting starts from two written accounts, not from whoever speaks first.
The first one to speak sets the terms.
You already meet each party on their own. Then, in the joint meeting, one talks over the other or arrives with a speech, and the quieter one spends the hour answering it.
Separate meetings help you hear both. They don't put both versions on an equal footing before either is heard.
Where it fits.
Before the first joint meeting.
Each writes the issues they want on the table and what happened, as they see it. Both open before you meet.
Between meetings.
Each writes how the arrangement went since you last met. Written apart, read together.
More than two people.
Three siblings and a parent's house: three versions on one screen. Needs Pro.
Open it at the meeting.
With Pro, your own version counts too. Set the number one higher than the parties; at the meeting, add a note of your own or lower the number, and the versions open in front of everyone.
What it is not.
Not a private channel to you.
At the end, everyone in the exchange reads every version. What a party wants only you to hear belongs in your separate meeting.
Not your screening.
It doesn't tell you whether joint work is safe, and it changes nothing about safety.
Not an agreement, or a record of one.
It holds what each party wrote, locked once it opens, and nothing else.
No notifications.
Nobody is told when someone writes or when it opens. Tell the parties when to write by.
Where it's kept.
On one server in Italy that Arasaka runs itself, as the parties wrote it. No AI reads it.
Questions? Write to us.
Pricing.
Two parties fit in Free, three new exchanges a month. More people, more exchanges, or opening it at the meeting takes Pro: €90 a year (€18 less than monthly) or €9 a month.
Free
For one couple, with you or on their own.
Free
- Exactly 2 people in each exchange
- 3 new exchanges a month
- Your clients join by link, with no app and no account
- Each version sealed until both have written
- Both versions open at once, and can be downloaded
- People in each exchange
- 2
- New exchanges a month
- 3
Pro
For a practice: every couple and family you see.
€9 a month
€90 a year
- 100 new exchanges a month
- Up to 1,000 people in each exchange
- Count yourself in and decide when the versions open
- Everything in Free
- Your clients still need no app and no account
- Switched on within a minute of the payment
- People in each exchange
- 1,000
- New exchanges a month
- 100
Already on a plan? Manage or cancel it from the billing portal.
Try it before your next mediation.
Send the link to yourself first: you'll see exactly what each party sees.